I have been wrestling with several issues that I would like to talk about on my blog. This has been going on quite awhile.
For me, writing about things is a cathartic act. It’s my way of moving things from my head to the outside world. It’s my pressure relief valve so my head doesn’t blow up.
While thinking about these issues, I read the above article. When I got to number 12, I had my answer. But I am still struggling.
What is it about me that wants to be painfully fair to other people, even when they don’t extend that courtesy to me? Why am I reticent when they aren’t.
If I don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything?
How do I handle blatant nastiness and unfairness? I want to talk about my feelings, yet I am censoring myself when the other people don’t.
What to do…what to do?????